Greeting Each Other in the Age of “Social Distancing”

In the age of Covid-19 and “social distancing,” many of us are renegotiating our daily interactions with other people. In a professional context, that might mean foregoing a hand shake. How do you navigate this potentially awkward situation? First, accept that it’s going to be uncomfortable. You may worry that you’re making a bad impression or sending an unfriendly message. Decide ahead of time what you’re comfortable doing, so you don’t end up following the other person’s lead. You might try giving a quick wave before returning your hand to your pocket or simply putting your hand on your chest, and then saying something like, “I guess we’re not supposed to shake hands now.” Using humor — as long as it isn’t at anyone’s expense — can help defuse any tension. And avoid judging anyone for their choices about what they feel comfortable with. Do what you feel comfortable doing, and assume others will understand.

Adapted from “How to Avoid Shaking Hands,” by Amy Gallo